The Object of My Affection (1998)

Trigger warning for homophobia and biphobia.

Watched a white people movie after a long time, and I remembered why I had stopped. Kids, nostalgia is a lie. This movie was nothing but wasted potential. I was briefly moved at the end of the movie due to the found family, but by then I had been triggered enough by this movie for even my favourite trope to salvage it. 

The worst part is that I actually LOVE Jennifer Aniston. I think she's a terrific actress, and I genuinely enjoy her screen presence. Here too, she did the best with what she was given, but I  honestly detested her character so much that I felt a physical revulsion. This movie was both homophobic and biphobic simultaneously, and there was just no consequences for such characters which was of course the most homophobic and biphobic thing of all.  Hate, hate this movie. I even contemplated giving it a higher rating (of one star) on Letterboxd, but then I remembered how I had recoiled during the scenes where Jen was acting like a little bitch. UGH. This is what happens when straight people try to pretend as if they know anything at all about being gay.

In conclusion, fuck this shit. 

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